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Dinner with strangers · Suomi

Dinner with strangers in Finnish: 10 phrases for tonight

A shared table where nobody knows anybody, which makes it easy to ask the obvious questions. Names, what you do, how you know the host: everyone is in the same boat.

Register: Informal (friendly). Sinä with other guests is normal. Finnish dinner guests are often quiet at first: a short, friendly opening question works best. Splitting the bill exactly is normal.

How to read the sounds: Finnish is spelled as pronounced, and the stress is always on the first syllable. Doubled vowels (aa, ii, uu, ää) and doubled consonants (kk, ll, tt, ss) are held noticeably longer, so kuuma and kumma are different words. y = ü (say 'ee' with rounded lips), ä = the a of 'cat', ö = the eu of French 'peu'. ai = eye, ei = ay, oi = oy, u = oo.

10 phrases, door to goodbye

  1. 01 · Arriving
    Hyvää iltaa! Olen ___. Mukava tutustua.
    Say it like: HÜ-vää IL-taa! O-len ___. MU-ka-va TU-tus-tu-a
    Good evening! I'm ___. Nice to meet you.
  2. 02 · Saying you're new
    En tunne ketään, joten on kiva olla täällä!
    Say it like: EN TUN-ne KE-tään, JO-ten on KI-va OL-la TÄÄL-lä
    I don't know anyone, so it's nice to be here!
  3. 03 · Asking how it works
    Saako istua mihin tahansa? Jaetaanko annokset?
    Say it like: SAA-ko IS-tu-a MI-hin TA-han-sa? JA-e-taan-ko AN-nok-set
    Can we sit anywhere? Do we share the dishes?
  4. 04 · Small talk
    Mitä teet työksesi?
    Say it like: MI-tä TEET TÜÖK-se-si
    What do you do for work?
  5. 05 · Small talk
    Mistä tunnet järjestäjän?
    Say it like: MIS-tä TUN-net JÄR-jes-tä-jän
    How do you know the organiser?
  6. 06 · Small talk
    Oletko ollut tällaisella illallisella ennen?
    Say it like: O-let-ko OL-lut TÄL-lai-sel-la IL-lal-li-sel-la EN-nen
    Have you been to a dinner like this before?
  7. 07 · Dietary needs
    Olen kasvissyöjä. Onko jotain ilman lihaa?
    Say it like: O-len KAS-vis-süö-jä. ON-ko JO-tain IL-man LI-haa
    I'm vegetarian. Is there something without meat?
  8. 08 · At the table
    Voisitko ojentaa veden, kiitos?
    Say it like: VOI-sit-ko O-jen-taa VE-den, KII-tos
    Could you pass the water, please?
  9. 09 · Paying
    Jaetaanko lasku vai miten maksetaan?
    Say it like: JA-e-taan-ko LAS-ku vai MI-ten MAK-se-taan
    Shall we split the bill, or how do we pay?
  10. 10 · Leaving & keeping in touch
    Kiitos seurasta! Tehdään tämä pian uudestaan.
    Say it like: KII-tos SEU-ras-ta! TEH-dään TÄ-mä PI-an UU-des-taan
    Thanks for the company! Let's do this again soon.

3 things you will probably hear

  1. H1 · You may hear
    Istukaa, minne haluatte.
    Say it like: IS-tu-kaa, MIN-ne HA-lu-at-te
    Sit wherever you like.
  2. H2 · You may hear
    Onko allergioita tai jotain, mitä ette syö?
    Say it like: ON-ko AL-ler-gi-oi-ta tai JO-tain, MI-tä ET-te SÜÖ
    Any allergies, or anything you don't eat?
  3. H3 · You may hear
    Tilataanko vielä pullo viiniä?
    Say it like: TI-la-taan-ko VIE-lä PUL-lo VII-ni-ä
    Shall we order another bottle of wine?

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Quick answers

What do I say when I arrive alone at a dinner with strangers in Finnish?

Start with: "Hyvää iltaa! Olen ___. Mukava tutustua." (Good evening! I'm ___. Nice to meet you.). Then say you are new: "En tunne ketään, joten on kiva olla täällä!" (I don't know anyone, so it's nice to be here!)

Should I use informal or formal Finnish at a dinner with strangers?

Sinä with other guests is normal. Finnish dinner guests are often quiet at first: a short, friendly opening question works best. Splitting the bill exactly is normal.

How do I ask to meet again after a dinner with strangers in Finnish?

Try: "Kiitos seurasta! Tehdään tämä pian uudestaan." (Thanks for the company! Let's do this again soon.)

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How it works

  1. Pick the evening and the language people will speak.
  2. Read the ten phrases in order: they follow the evening from the door to goodbye. Tap the speaker to hear each one in your device's voice.
  3. Print the card or keep it open on your phone. Native-speaker review is still pending; a "check" mark flags a phrase we are least sure of.
  4. Find the event on Come Alone, open it in Meet & Mint to see who else is going, and say the first phrase for real.

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